Wednesday 3 February 2016

Lets teach our boys the following:

I have two boys age 14 and 12. So both teens but still boys, growing into men.

I am teaching my boys some of the following things, and the rest are things that I still need to teach them before they grow up to become the adults that I would like them to be.



I want kind, considerate and caring men.


  1. I am always on your side.
  2. Respect everybody. And I mean everybody.
  3. Be kind to animals.
  4. Look the person you shake hands with in the eyes.
  5. You are what you do, not what you say.
  6. Girls like clean boys, so take a bath often.
  7. If you don't have another choice but to use force, then hit first and hit hard.
  8. Give a street performer a coin if they made you stop and look.
  9. Learn to listen what people are saying.
  10. Don't forget to thank those who help you.
  11. Never, under any circumstances, argue with a girl with PMS or a pregnant women.
  12. Always offer to carry stuff for girls, your mom and female members of your family.
  13. If someone gave you their car for a ride, return it with a full gas tank.
  14. Always pic the window seat and enjoy the ride, even if you are afraid of heights.
  15. Never put a photo on the internet you don't want your parents or superiors to see.
  16. Don't spoil family pictures. Always smile.
  17. Tell me if you are bullied at school, I will kill them.
  18. Never be a bully! I will kill you!
  19. Always sing in the car if your favorite song is on, even or especially if you can't sing.
  20. If your teacher forgot to check the homework, don't remind them.
  21. Don't fart in front of girls, and always say sorry.
  22. Never waist food, there are to many starving people on earth.
  23. Google is your friend, Read!
  24. Keep your promises, always!
  25. Safe your money, as much as you can.
  26. Before you do something, remember that you will have to live with the consequences of your actions.
  27. Learn from your mistakes, and if you don't you can't blame somebody else. 
  28. Boys and girls are equal, you are not better because you are a boy.
  29. You are allowed to cry.
  30. If you ever become a parent you are just as responsible for your kids as their mother.
  31. No is No!
  32. Always tell the truth.
  33. Learn to read a recipe and then bake a cake.
  34. You have to brush your teeth twice a day!
  35. Life is not fare!
  36. Never ever say "you are crazy" to a girl, then she will go crazy on you.
  37. Go easy on the cologne.
  38. Always were clean underwear
  39. If I found out that you smoke or used chemical drugs I will smack you
  40. Don't spit it is disgusting. 
  41. Never raise a hand to a women.
  42. Tell people that you love them.
  43. Never kiss and tell.
  44. Don't be late.
  45. Open the door for other people, not just girls.
  46. Always flush the toilet.

I might have missed some, but as I remember I will teach the boys.